On my previous platform, "What Women Want", I blogged about how I almost fell for a married man (because I didn't know he was married). I also talked about how much I appreciated him for being honest with me by telling me he was married before I actually did fall for him.
Now most women say falling for a married man is the worst thing and I do agree with that 100%, it is not a situation single women want to fall victim to, but i have also realized that what may just be worse is actually falling for a single guy (not married) who has someone he's in love with and we can all say there's a 99% chance of him ending up with the girl he's in love with. I say this because in most cases, you know when a guy is married. With single guys, you do not know if he has a girlfriend or not, some guys date you for months and then say they are not ready for a relationship.....Gurrrrrl, Miss Daisy is waiting for him at home. Lol
I'm blogging about this coz there's too much of this situation happening in the "single world" today. Do we blame it on the ratio of men to women? Do we blame it on men being greedy and heartless? Or do we blame it on women who fall for guys they clearly know has someone in his life? Hmmmm!
Agreed on the fact that there are more women than men in the world today and best believe it's still going up coz majority of the people having babies are having girls, Lol. I guess we all need to pray to God to please Grace us with more men in the world. Lol.
Blaming men for being greedy and heartless....... Dare I say it's somehow in their genes? Lol. The same way men will never fully understand women (no matter how smart they think they are), is the same way we will never fully understand them. Why? Because they are all different. Yes they do have common features just like us women do but the sooner you understand that there is something in Dave that Bayo doesn't have, the better for you. Understand your own man, not all the men in the world and never compare him to your last (same goes to you guys).
Yes I do agree that many guys who have someone in their lives go about either lying about it, failing to mention there's someone special in their life or being honest and saying "hey I do have a girlfriend but I like you, let's be matured here", that will lead to him saying"I enjoy having sex with you", "I love being around you". Then you start telling your friends "we are just having casual sex, it's just a fling", this in most cases is you lying to yourself about how you really feel, it happens to the best of us. Then you finally hear yourself telling him "I miss you", "you didn't message me last week" etc. People, this is where the problem starts, yes it's being honest but that na where the wahala dey emanate from. True or false? Lol.
Here's something we all need to know and understand, there is no way 2 people can have good sex, great communication/understanding, be good friends, basically co-exist together and not fall for each other (i blogged about this in my "Friends With Benefit" post). When this does happens, the victim will most likely be the one who doesn't have anyone special in his/her life.
Who gets hurt at the end of the day? I'll leave you guys to answer in the comment box below.
Still so much more to say, Lol. I'll finish this in a few days.
Love Lowla :-)
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